BeautifulSdot | This whole 50/50 thing

SDot talks about why she remains single through an recent experience with some dumb dude. LIsten up guy and gals, she gives some good advice about relationships. Oh well another bites the dust, she's moving on to something big and better which is ME! LMAO

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10 Ways to love

1. Listen without interrupting. [ Proverbs 18 ]
2. Speak without accusing. [ James 1:19 ] 
3. Give without Sparing. [ Proverbs 21:26 ]
4. Pray without ceasing. [ Colossians 1:9 ]
5. Answer without arguing. [ Proverds 17:1 ]
6. Share without pretending. [ Ephesians 4:15 ]
7. Enjoy without complaint. [ Philippians 2:14 ]
8. Trust without wavering. [ Corinthians 13:7 ]
9. Forgive without punishing. [ Colossians 3:13 ]
10. P R O M I S E without FORGETTING. [ Proverbs 13:12 ]

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Stages Of Relationships

• • STAGE 1: 1-3 months = The Honeymoon Stage:
    Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love”. You share moments, dates, and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking ” This may work out.. ” and seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.
    
    
    • *If your relationship ended in this stage - Most likely, both rushed into the relationship to fast. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or  back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both maybe just need the time to know one another more.
  • STAGE 2: 4-6 months = The Bumpy Road:
    Things are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personality not seen before, but still truely care for one another.
    
    
    • *If your relationship ended in this stage - You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet, you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing , it doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility.
  • STAGE 3: 7-12 months = The Rocky Mountain: 
    You start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguements may occur. Problems with jealously. Over protectiveness may rise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” momments start to decrease, but you feel as if, you’ve “fallin in love”. You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work”, you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself.
    
    
    • *If your relationship ends in this stage - You feel as if you’re hurt- depending on the circumstance. You were so sure that that person was “the one”. You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened; a small issue,